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1. Natii says:

   August 26, 2012 at 9:20 pm

   I would start out by telling him that you penolrasly have decided that you are going to start to see a counselor and that you would really like his support with something you are dealing with. I would go to see your therapist one on one the first time to get out in the open what the issue is and then tell them that you would like to invite your husband to a future session to start working on the issue.the therapist will probably want to ask you a few questions first to have a good platform of what the issue is. Then you can say everything you want w/ out him there and you don’t have to worry about hurting his feelings.When you are ready to invite him. Tell him that your therapy is really working for you and you feel that it’s doing some good. Ask him if he wouldn’t mind going with you to a session. Tell him that somethings came up that your therapist thought might be good to have both of you come to a session together. Tell him in a cheerful voice and don’t act whiny or sad because you want to invite him not discourage him.I hope this helps